This is the life plan I wrote down in 2011, the year my first child was born. It is published without changing a single word.
life charter
1. I can develop and succeed only by challenging myself. I will not stop taking on challenges professionally with eccentricity, hungry spirit, perseverance and insight. I will work hard with the understanding that there are more opportunities for success with small or new objects, rather than focusing on the challenge of a plausible object. 2. I will not live in things, but among people. My mission is to make my value shine among people, to feel the passion to create my own universe among people, to receive sincere inspiration from people, and to bring about small but meaningful changes by providing positive energy and inspiration among people. do not forget that it is And accept that small adversities are God's will to test and strengthen this mission. 3. You will thank God and love God's creation, the universe, to achieve your mission. 4. An important process to achieve the mission is to see the wider world and develop research on people. Using my experience as an advantage, I moved to Starbucks in 2013 and will be building experience and skills for positive energy and inspirational marketing among people. Especially when entering an unknown new market, my experience will be shining. Through him, I would have learned more positively inspiring things. 5. I will not be lazy to check the direction so that my mission and job can create synergy while looking in the same direction. Inspiring people positively is my mission and it will be my job. 6. To this end, I would have made separate notes for the following things, repeating them until they became a part of me as a whole, and in 2013 I would have already made them natural skills. -English language, English interview, decent appearance, coffee knowledge, connection with Starbucks, marketing terminology, economic terminology, historical art and common sense, knowledge of consumer megatrends and would have started a business.
life charter
1. Go steadily but slowly every day: English, Meditation Skills, Art, Physical Fitness 2. Strip away and be simple, and focus on it -don't spend your precious time and energy aimlessly -don't hang out and drink unnecessarily Be bold and outsource your work 3. Prove it slowly with your actions, not ahead of words 4. Even if you do one thing, do it properly and say “wow” 5. Always keep positive energy and inspiration around you 6. Anyone Have respect and don't gossip. 7. Instead of splendor for others, seek inner substance for yourself. 8. Be simple, modest, and say only what you know. business enterpreneur and writer so lecture -You must speak English well to lecture, do business, and have a conversation -You must have a deeper understanding of art history Cello) - Piano - Composition - Painting: Drawing - Croquis - Oil painting - Sculpture - Poetry: Essay Forest Park Monkey - Short story - Poetry - Lyricist - Play - Scenario
This plan did not come out of nowhere, like Moses receiving the 10 commandments. This charter, which was repeated until just before leaving the company, was updated 15 times. I am very serious about the direction of my life.
well done
- He moved to a foreign company to make the global keyword a reality. I quit the domestic conglomerate, which was a dream job for some people.
- Developing English and communication skills for global keywords.
- Reading books over and over – it made me not forget my dream of being a creator.
- Continuing to write - wrote more than 10 novellas, short stories, as well as blogs. It was rather naive.
regret
- An attempt to share time with small things. It failed to bring about real change and impact. If you look at the schedule, you will see unrealistic control plans, such as 15 minutes at work and 30 minutes at work.
- drinking party. I was swept away without thinking to soothe the despondency and futility of my work life. It is the most precious time.
- Starting personal training late. I have come to understand my body better.
- late resignation. should do it a little earlier
- not saving. Impulsive consumption to earn money – imported cars, overseas trips, etc.
what I realized
- You should focus on what you can control. I shouldn't fret over something I can't help - especially something long-term. I have to move forward while feeling the impact of an hour, a day, or a month right in front of my eyes that I can change.
For example, going global has been a long-cherished dream of mine. I also lived abroad for a short time. However, going to work abroad eventually failed. While the specific story was coming and going with the Swedish corporation, it was canceled due to corona and various headaches. I couldn't help it. - You should focus on trying. After trying, the result remains anyway. If you focus on learning, you waste time. Learning leaves no results. Before and after learning are the same. On the other hand, trying always leaves some result, and in the end all success is based on trying. You should not fall into the self-consolation of learning without making visible results.
- Life keeps changing. But planning is important. Thanks to my firm direction and values, I think I found my way through proper wandering. This is because if you have a firm direction and values, you can have a center even if your life plan is slightly twisted. Inevitability disguised as coincidence is connected, which is the result of 10 years of watching.
- If you can't do it in 3 months, you can't do it forever. Of course, the environment is important, but I realized that, so to speak, “the ability to make decisions” is very important. If you don't, it will flow in a blur. blaming the circumstances. Worst of all, that's how you arrive at the end of your life. Sleeping dreamily on the train of life.
- The organization betrays me. So are the people in it. Things that do not betray me, customers, and people start from relationships outside the company. The bonds that are created will last a lifetime. When you get older, office workers are the most shabby and pitiful.
- There is no completion. Life keeps changing. I also don't know what will happen after 3 years or 10 years. If you have a pleasant excitement and adventurous spirit here rather than fear, then you have a good life, I thought. It reminds us that office workers tend to be afraid of it, and founders tend to welcome it. It's not about money. It's about control and positivity in my life.
- The Stockdale Paradox is an attitude that should not be forgotten.
